When you work at a company like LELO, we often get accused of thinking about masturbation all day, every day. You should take that oh-so-important private time you normally spend with an erotic story , a vibrator and some tissues, and share it with you partner sometime. Some people can feel a little shy about trying this, since most of us have been masturbating alone for our entire lives. It adds something new to your sex fore-after-or-during play just the same as blow jobs or fingering do. It helps your partner understand how you like to be touched and how to make you orgasm and vice versa. If you ever plan on co-habitating, chances are there is going to be a time when one of you wants to masturbate and the other wants to go to sleep, so why not get comfortable with your partner masturbating next to you now? That way they can peruse it on their own AND get all riled up in anticipation.
So when her boyfriend requested to watch, she wasn't sure whether she really wanted an audience. Either I was in a relationship and didn't really do it, or I was on my own and did it all the time. We had been seeing each other and sleeping together for a few months when he first asked me how I liked to touch myself when I was alone. It's not that I don't like self-love, but making time for that when I'm also having sex with another person is just too much for me!